Nurture me, your gift from God

To become a powerful liberator of mankind

Guide me not by your desires or failures

Rather, look into me and see who I am

Look into me and hear my thoughts


Look into me and see my ideals

To be motivated by what you have created

An independent, intelligent, autonomous leader of mankind

Encourage me to reach the level of importance in life that I wish

And not be swayed by your passions or desires, but by mine


Guide me patiently

To become an affable adolescent

Where I may favor mankind

To grow and benefit others


Do not corrupt me by your wisdom

With your passions of despair

Do not interfere with my core principles, rather

Allow me to morph into the life I am destined to assume

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Nick De Stefano has been a friend and mentor to me for many years.

Nick is passionate about his desire to share his knowledge and experience about business that he has amassed over a lifetime of the practical application of the principles.

He is dogged in his efforts to teach good business principles so that others might avoid the pitfalls that await anyone who sets out to start a business without the knowledge that they need to succeed.

His written word and videos are stepping stones designed to make it easier to get where you are going and keep your feet dry on the journey.

I wish him well in his noble mission to help others!

Jim Webb

Tampa, Florida

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With the astounding victorious achievement of President elect Donald Trump, in the US National Election this past November, 2016, comes a growing concern for the people in our country who feel less-than in their daily lives!

Some may feel cheated, disenfranchised or simply forgotten by the government of the United States. Some farmers who feel the weight of toil for so little fear, the government has let them down. Factory workers who have lost their jobs feel angry because they feel their jobs were taken from them by a foreign worker in another country such as China.

These people all feel our government has let them down and, along comes mister Trump fueling their angst and promising them what they imagine will satisfy their hunger and desires for a better life. The government of the United States, up till now, hasn’t provided for them they feel but, mister Trump will he said and, they believed him. But, do they have trust in him this morning?

Mr. Trump already appears to be noncommittal in many of his campaign promises reversing on things such as, building a partial fence instead of that huge wall he promised everyone with the assurance Mexico would pay for it.

And, his promise to deport all illegal immigrants? Well, he has changed his mind on that too. Now he claims to deport only criminal immigrants.

Oh, what about Crooked Hillary? Well, she now seems less than a criminal and he will not pursue any legal action against her?

If you voted for Mr. Trump, are you feeling let down? His he a man of his word in your mind right now?

Mr. Trump is a person, regardless of his business acumen, who, in my opinion cannot be trusted to keep his word. He uses words to get what he wants, he doesn’t mean to keep them.

How can we trust him in the Oval Office?
Will our Allies, who already have their doubts about his trustworthiness, be confident in negotiations in matters of Global importance with this man?

At this point, and it’s only been less than one week since voting day, can we believe anything he says? About the rhetoric during the campaign? Well, if it hasn’t occurred to you yet, he was telling the large list of voters exactly what he knew they wanted to here.

Now that he’s been elected? Well, all of that rhetoric goes out the window; he didn’t mean one word of it. He fished us in and hooked us all.

His campaigning was all a well-choreographed act and well-orchestrated to get your vote. He’s a terrific salesman and we bought it all!

If we stop looking for others to solve our problems, if we take charge of ourselves and be more responsible for our actions, we will rid ourselves of self-righteousness and, with a growing confidence in ourselves, we will rid ourselves of the arrogance we display while relying on others to do for us what we can do for ourselves.

If we continue, as a populous with our arrogance and self-righteousness, we will lead ourselves into the hands of some despot or an autocrat who will destroy us and our country.

We must maintain our democracy by strengthening and reinforcing our convictions in ourselves and be more responsible for ourselves and our actions. We ought to be more autonomous and self-assured in our dealings with ourselves and show the world we are a self-actualized society, strong and independent as our forefathers were and who envisioned the same for us and our future society.

I believe in being responsible with our autonomy and confident in ourselves to thwart the attempt by a despot or autocrat to take us over.

Strength in ourselves is what they fear the most because, if we have fear in ourselves they have the fuel to make us burn!

Self-confidence, pride in ourselves, the willingness to stand up for ourselves and, strength from within is what we need for continued growth in ourselves and our democracy! Let’s rid ourselves of our self-destructive arrogance and self-righteousness so the world will see us as before, a strong friend they can count on.

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It was a dark and stormy night, of course
Heavy rain, strong winds
Threatening destruction
A storm I could not have imagined
Threatening my existence

I search for something to combat the danger
I am alone with nothing but tangible matter,
A stranger to me
How do I fight such an impending force?
Such an intruding peril

Quickly searching
No solution apparent
My mind quickly engages the present
What choices for survival, this peril?

Without tangible evidence
I thrust myself into Super Mode
To defend my treasures to the death
Of no thought that death will occur

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A strange experience is about to happen

A never before encounter

Eighteen minds confused but, bright

Sitting still as they may in fright

Waiting for the next chapter to fall into their hands


Chapter after chapter

They listen with intent

As the creator of those prose sounds out in fright

Trying to convey in an intelligent tone

An audible sound offering the prose


Listening with the difficulty I have

Trying to make sense of the sounds

Ditch is spoken but I,

I hear bitch in the air


Chapter after chapter I listen intently

Not a word that matters to me

Not a sound coming for me to hear

I must admit, I hear no one has spoken

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We are born to be free!

What happens, we’re pressured to conform to what other’s think we should be, follow their rules, not the rules of nature.

Our freedom depends on how well we BEHAVE, that is to follow the orders of our superiors, our handlers and dance to the beat of their drum.

What happened to individuality, free spirit, creativity?

We are not allowed to be free, to show our uniqueness, our strengths or, to express our desires. We are taught to conform, follow the rules. This happens when we turn about three, when our handlers think we are old enough to comply with their demands. We are no longer the free spirits as we were born! We must change our behavior and, conform, they demand from us.

Prior to age three, we are free to express ourselves, demonstrate our uniqueness!

We as children learn to express ourselves, find pleasure playing with a bottle cap, learn to walk, jump, try to talk, all the FUN things to do while celebrating LIFE and our freedom.

For nine months, we are trapped in the womb then, we discover freedom only to be trapped again!

Then one day, our world comes crashing down around us because some handler demands that we give up our individuality and conform to their way of thinking, to behave in the manner they perceive for us, follow their rules!

Rebel, we must! Take back our freedom!

It’s time to return to our days of yesteryear! Rise up! Let’s bring back the fun in our lives, recreate the atmosphere in which we were free, allow our spirits to roam, demonstrate our individuality and, allow our uniqueness to be shared with mankind!

Have you watched a kitten develop? When a kitten is born, the mother cat does not restrict the newborn. The kitten is allowed its freedom unless it happens upon danger, at which time mother cat intervenes and returns the kitten to a safe haven.

In time, as the kitten grows, it develops while exploring its world, expressing its uniqueness while sharing with the rest of its family. The kitten grows and shares his knowledge with other cats to be repeated.

Observing nature, we may take from nature and learn to be more playful and less demanding, not to interfere with our individuality and expression of who we are!

We will learn to be free and great again!

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Who Sleeps in Your Skin?

 Have you ever considered that perhaps you are not yourself? You are not whom you think you are?

By this I mean, have you ever considered all the messages you’ve received while you were growing up that you simply couldn’t understand? Subliminal messages that you could not realize? How about all the messages you’ve received from your parents, teachers, athletic coaches, your preacher or Priest, conscious and un-conscious or, subliminal messages that have negatively impacted your behavior, today?

And, subliminal messages continue today because you are not aware of them nor do you know how to turn them off or reject them. You continue to receive new messages that reinforce those messages from long ago that plague your consciousness today.

You behave in a certain manner and struggle to know why! Conflicts abound as you struggle to understand your own behavior and, confusion sets in.

Consider, all the people in your life who have given you demands to perform in a certain way or, to behave in a certain manner. These behaviors are contrast to what you would like for yourself. Perhaps you’re not aware of the conflicts that have risen up within you because these interferences that have been placed upon you by others, all below your conscious level.


Or, you may not have considered any of this at all.


And, you continue in life struggling to understand the many conflicts that rise up each day and you pretend to know the reasons why but, these conflicts continue because you do not have the true answers to these conflicts. You continue to be confused but not aware enough to investigate as to the reason why you are confused and maybe suffering.

I would like you to give consideration to the fact that you have simply accepted as fact or true the messages given to you over time. You weren’t old enough in thought to challenge these messages or, more likely, you were not aware of these messages or the effect they have had on your behavior. Is this what is referred to as faith, the blind acceptance of a doctrine or ideal not fully understood?

You’ve been going along in life feeling a bit distressed but have given no thought as to why. Or, perhaps you have given a false answer to a conflict because you simply do not have the true reason for the conflict. You struggle to find an answer to your conflict but, because you have accepted these messages as true, you have no bases for challenging the reason for your conflicts.

A time must come for you to challenge what you have accepted as true! Remove the confusion in your life so that you may see a clear future for yourself on the horizon.

When that time comes for you, you will give thought to hose subliminal messages and challenge their truthfulness for you, today. When you challenge those messages, using the standards for yourself today, the meaning of those messages will have a different effect for you. You will decide which messages to discard and which to keep.

When you decide to change your behavior and, change your thinking processes, only then will you allow yourself to look at your future with an increased desire to empower yourself with positive self-actualization. You will then experience the freedom from the constraints of those subliminal messages and move forward in your life, positively and courageously.

You must summon the courage from within you to challenge these messages, see them in today’s light, decide what to keep and what not to keep. You will free yourself to be the person you wish to be and make the decisions for you consciously and positively then, you will have empowered yourself with the power and courage to be whom you want to be!



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